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#91 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:11:14
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Quote ( Flavio Almeida @ December 7th 2014,15:01:08 ) You will interpret as an insult to those who die of hunger, too? My god...
My comment has absolutely nothing to do with your analogy. It has to do with your inability to see where the insults like "retard" and "mentally ill" cross the line. You seem to be unable to grasp why these kind of comments are completely inappropriate and you keep defending your position. So let me spell this out to you:
IF YOU CALL SOMEONE A RETARD OR MENTALLY DISABLED, AND YOU MEAN IT AS AN INSULT, YOU ARE SAYING THAT RETARDS OR MENTALLY DISABLED PEOPLE ARE LESS THAN EQUAL, LESSER PEOPLE, BECAUSE YOU ARE USING THEM AS THE MEASURE TO INSULT SOMEBODY. And this is where Rafa crossed the line.
Besides, "retard" is a derogatory term which you should not use in the first place. That's why I'm happy to sort you out with a bigger shovel, because you started digging a hole under yourself with those comments.
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#92 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:11:21
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Quote ( Filipe Oliveira @ December 7th 2014,15:06:28 ) If you say that my job sucks, you are offending me.
That's what has upset much of the Brazilian community.
The thing is Flo and Rafael are able to defend themselves if they wish
However those with mental Illness are more often than not unable to to.
So who do you think you should be upset with?
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#93 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:12:05
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Weird that Florencia never came on and trivialised mental illness.
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#94 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:14:27
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Quote ( Flavio Almeida @ December 7th 2014,14:55:50 )
If I say that I am hungry, I will be offending the African people starving?
Are all Africans starving, or do you just like ignorant sweeping generalisations?
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#95 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:15:45
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Quote ( Peter Willmore @ December 7th 2014,15:11:21 )
However those with mental Illness are more often than not unable to to.
So who do you think you should be upset with?
I'm not defending his attitude. He missed as everyone makes mistakes, including you and me.
The problem is that used different criteria for both cases.
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#96 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:15:58
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What People are barking saying in this off topic making it completely off topic
Some new very nice off topics are over here .
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#97 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:16:40
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#98 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:17:10
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Quote ( Max Watson @ December 7th 2014,15:08:16 )
Peter, while we all need our consciousness raised once in a while, I feel you should take intentionality into account. No one is claiming that what Rafa said was acceptable, but anyone who knows him can confirm that he is not a bigot. What he said was not a pre-meditated attack on a certain group of people; it was something said in a moment of anger when he felt all the effort he had put into this community was being called worthless - called worthless, moreover, by someone who was not aware that the majority of his modding was being done in the Portugeuse Language forum, and had therefore had little experience of it.
The way he phrased his rebuke was wrong. That has been observed and accepted now. The next step is to recognise that even decent people make mistakes, particularly when goaded.
Just as I think.
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#99 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:18:36
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Quote ( Max Watson @ December 7th 2014,15:08:16 ) Peter, while we all need our consciousness raised once in a while, I feel you should take intentionality into account. No one is claiming that what Rafa said was acceptable, but anyone who knows him can confirm that he is not a bigot. What he said was not a pre-meditated attack on a certain group of people; it was something said in a moment of anger when he felt all the effort he had put into this community was being called worthless - called worthless, moreover, by someone who was not aware that the majority of his modding was being done in the Portugeuse Language forum, and had therefore had little experience of it.
The way he phrased his rebuke was wrong. That has been observed and accepted now. The next step is to recognise that even decent people make mistakes, particularly when goaded.
I get that you know Rafael much better than I do, however the fact that it was the first insult which came to mind says alot about the man IMO
Furthermore I have seen nowhere him having any remorse about it ?
So to me the first stage would be for him to understand it was wrong and also maybe understand how his comments as a Moderator reflects on the game we all enjoy so much as a whole .
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Quote ( Filipe Oliveira @ December 7th 2014,15:15:45 ) I'm not defending his attitude. He missed as everyone makes mistakes, including you and me.
The problem is that used different criteria for both cases.
Rafael was a moderator, he was basically said "in charge" of the forum. He should give us a good example and of course mistakes are allowed - I'm not saying all the other mods are 100% perfect or that I am perfect. However, what he did there is just unacceptable as a mod.
Finn is not a moderator so that makes a difference as well - Besides, Rafael could also not have posted and have given him an official warning for insulting, right?
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Quote ( Wopke Hoekstra @ December 7th 2014,15:19:09 ) Besides, Rafael could also not have posted and have given him an official warning for insulting, right?
No, because I didn't insult anyone.
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#102 Postuar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:20:50 (Së fundi edituar 7 Dhjetor 2014, 15:21:11 nga José Nunes)
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Quote ( Finn Shaw-McIver @ December 7th 2014,14:55:38 ) Have you came here from the 14th century with views like that?
You must have a very strong saint to protect you, because after post's 20612, with some offensive post's, you still here.
What are you? A GPRO sponsor?
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Quote ( Wopke Hoekstra @ December 7th 2014,15:19:09 ) Rafael was a moderator, he was basically said "in charge" of the forum. He should give us a good example and of course mistakes are allowed - I'm not saying all the other mods are 100% perfect or that I am perfect. However, what he did there is just unacceptable as a mod.
Finn is not a moderator so that makes a difference as well - Besides, Rafael could also not have posted and have given him an official warning for insulting, right?
I agree with you. But other moderate had seen the post and did nothing.
All this could have been avoided if the topic had been closed on time.
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I fell Finn was not insulting anyone that's our negative thinking which make us feel that .I feel Rafael can be a best mod in future
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Quote ( Jack Wemyss @ December 7th 2014,14:18:04 ) Shoaib please, surely you've realised by now that posts on these forums, and a logical thought process are not a common combination. Fair point!
Quote ( Finn Shaw-McIver @ December 7th 2014,14:18:56 ) Quote ( Daryl Gee @ December 7th 2014,14:17:24 )
Personally I think there's a pretty big difference between calling Finn a "mentally disabled human being", and mocking / attacking the mentally disabled.
Using mental illness as an insult?
Quote ( Shoaib Mohamed @ December 7th 2014,14:16:26 )
Wait, so the real issue is not that there are off topic threads are being created but rather that there is a sense of injustice being done? :{O
No that's exactly what it is, read the Brazilian forum, if you're on chrome you can translate the page. They think I should be banned I'll check it when I get on a PC probably. But this is why I'm not a fan of the language/national threads. They end up creating too much of an "us versus them" sentiment and unnecessary nationalism.
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Quote ( Filipe Oliveira @ December 7th 2014,15:23:12 ) All this could have been avoided if Rafael had not insulted the mentally ill
Fixed that for you :)
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Quote ( Filipe Oliveira @ December 7th 2014,15:23:12 ) But other moderate had seen the post and did nothing.
All this could have been avoided if the topic had been closed on time.
Don't blame it on the other mods now, because Rafael was still a mod and every mod has to decide for himself what's best. Just because the topic was still open and no other mod closed it doesn't give him the right to make such insults.
He could have closed it himself and if other mods disagreed they could've used something like PM to discuss it all. If it would be re-opened, Rafael would already have calmed down most likely or he could at least have thought about how to choose his words.
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Thank god some of you aren't in politics, as you seem to think the people in charge should not have a bad word said about them. Protect your friends and punish those that speak against them.
actually you'd be perfect for politics
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Quote ( Filipe Oliveira @ December 7th 2014,15:23:12 ) All this could have been avoided if the topic had been closed on time.
Rafa could have closed it himself. Instead he chose to post the comment of a wally.
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Funny how this topic turned from Flavio complaining about the lack of forum bans to a fist fight between Finn and Brazil. :D
Guys, as much as I think Rafa's comment was inappropriate, I really don't think he meant it to insult anyone other than Finn. He did cross the line, but in all honesty I've never seen him do that, so I don't think he's a bigot at all. We all make mistakes. Does that mean we should be crucified? And Finn saying that Rafa is "shit" was also inappropriate, and a little step too far, no matter how he feels. So there is no innocent party here. Finn has said the wrong thing too. That's what I think.
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lol so true Imagine how David Cameron must feel if you get insulted time someone calls you shit at your job :D
Funny thing this is one of the few topics I have actually agreed with finn about :)
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Some guy on Wiki has quantified the difference between an idiot, moron & imbecile based on IQ scores?
Do me a favour ...
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Every time I hear someone say something similar to "I know him and he isn't like that. Yes he said something out of anger but he isn't a bigot", it makes me think of dogs. Every time you hear about a dog tearing apart a baby, the dog's owner says "he's never done that before, he loves babies and has never harmed a mouse or even a fly before". Just because someone hasn't acted like that in front of you, it doesn't mean they aren't innately like that. Now I'm not necessarily calling Rafa a bigot, but to use a mental illness to degrade someone (and therefore those with mental illnesses) suggests that the person has had these type of thoughts before if they are willing to use them, in calmness or anger.
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Quote ( Michal Szopinski @ December 7th 2014,15:30:37 ) Guys, as much as I think Rafa's comment was inappropriate, I really don't think he meant it to insult anyone other than Finn
Just because he did no intend to insult anyone else does not change the fact that he has.
Quote ( Michal Szopinski @ December 7th 2014,15:30:37 ) but in all honesty I've never seen him do that, so I don't think he's a bigot at all.
As I have said before it worries me this was the first insult he could think of.
I have also just read Joe's post and he puts it very well
Here's a suggestion for anyone who thinks that Rafael's statement was trivial, contact a local Autism Children's charity/ or any other mental illness for that matter and ask if you could spend the day helping the kids and see how they struggle and then come back and say it does not really matter his attitude. Because that's what you are essentially saying.
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I cannot be arsed looking if someone said it or not but, you're saying these topics are stupid and a waste of time...that's exactly what this topic is!
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Quote ( Tim Sewell @ December 7th 2014,15:32:49 )
Oh dear.
Best to do a forum search for me using the terms "idiot" and "moron" before pulling me up on the word imbecile, which is no longer used within the context of that article you linked.
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Quote ( Michael Winkley @ December 7th 2014,15:43:02 ) Best to do a forum search for me using the terms "idiot" and "moron" before pulling me up on the word imbecile, which is no longer used within the context of that article you linked.
In that case, why did you edit it?
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Quote ( Tim Sewell @ December 7th 2014,15:44:20 ) In that case, why did you edit it?
because I kind of figured that there would be some kind of smartass that would try to pull me up on it.
At no point have I used any of those "medical" terms with reference to anyone with any kind of mental illness.
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Quote ( Joe Manifold @ December 7th 2014,15:41:51 ) Just because someone hasn't acted like that in front of you, it doesn't mean they are innately like that. Now I'm not necessarily calling Rafa a bigot, but to use a mental illness to degrade someone (and therefore those with mental illnesses) suggests that the person has had these type of thoughts before if they are willing to use them, in calmness or anger. Quote ( Peter Willmore @ December 7th 2014,15:42:30 ) Just because he did no intend to insult anyone else does not change the fact that he has.
I totally agree with that, 100%, and I'm not trying to excuse Rafa. I'm not saying he hasn't done anything wrong. The fact that he hasn't come out and publicly apologized actually bothers me. But I know that I am not perfect either and I make stupid mistakes, so before I judge someone I try to see the good side of that person.
E: And one more thing, our behavior often reflects our environment, not our tendencies. It's the society as a whole that conditions us to behave in certain ways. This doesn't always mean we are in certain way inclined. Sometimes we all make errors of judgement. How many times do we say something and then we realise that it was the wrong thing to say and we didn't mean it the way it came out? That's why I tend to not make any judgment of a person based on some one comment, which they might be regretting after realising its implication. And I'm not trying to defend Rafa here, because I completely agree that it was a terrible thing to say. All I'm saying is that I don't really think he meant to insult any disabled person, although he did.
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